Singles event • East London

Meet someone, see them again and again

Third Dates is a low-stakes singles event built around a simple idea: great connections take time, so why not ease into it... even if just for the plot.

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A better way to start

67% to 90% of romances do not begin with a “spark”.

So let's try a little experiment.

How it works

Meet someone on a night out,
then agree to see them three more times

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Sign up for our next event

Tell us a bit about who you are, tell us what you're into and pay an £8 refundable deposit to secure your spot.

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Come to the event

Join us for a fun in-person singles night in East London. The exact location will be shared with attendees.

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Make real connections

Prepare for some low-stakes yapping, flirting, fun and games...

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Commit to the bit

If you are into it, you both agree to go on three dates and see what unfolds.

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Try three dates

Instead of overthinking date one, you both give it a fair shot with three. We've got you covered on date ideas!

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See what happens

Maybe it's chemistry. Maybe it's a plot twist. Maybe it's just a really good story. That's kind of the point.

You go on one date.

Maybe it's great. Maybe it's mid. Either way, you'll get to see them again with no pressure.

Then you go on another.

The nerves drop. The jokes get better. The chemistry gets a second chance to turn up.

And another.

Because most people are not instant fireworks. They're a slow burn.

What Third Dates actually is

A fun singles night first. Then agree to three dates if you both feel it.

You come to a stylish, low-pressure event, meet people in person, and see who feels easy, exciting, intriguing, or just worth another look. If there's mutual interest, the idea is simple: instead of deciding everything from one moment, you both agree to give it three dates and see what fun might be waiting beyond first impressions.

No huge promises. No dramatic pressure. Just a better experiment in meeting someone properly.

The vibe

Intentional, playful, a little sexy, and very much in person.

Less endless texting. More actual atmosphere. More presence. More possibility.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions

Who is this for?

Anyone in their 20s and 30s who feels like dating isn't fun anymore and wants more adventure, discovery and exploration.

How long does signing up take?

Usually about 3 to 5 minutes.

Will my information be private?

Yes! Your information is only used for event registration and matchmaking.

Where are the events hosted?

Events are hosted in East London. The exact location will be shared with attendees.

Do I have to be certain about someone immediately?

No. That is the whole point. Third Dates is designed around the idea that connection can grow after a first meeting.

Is this speed dating?

Not exactly. It's more relaxed, more social, and built to feel like a genuinely good night rather than a stopwatch with drinks.

What does “three dates” really mean?

It means giving an interesting connection a real chance before writing it off too early. Think of it as openness with structure, not pressure.

What happens after the three dates

It's up to you! This three-dates approach has led to relationships, friends and, sometimes, meaningful personal growth. Ideally, you'll have greater clarity by the end of it.

Ready?

Come for the night. Stay for the possibility.

If you're interested in making dating fun again and possibly making some great connections along the way, sign up below.

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