Third Dates • Singles event
Meet someone, see them again... and again... and again...
Great connection takes time,
so why not ease into it?
...even if just for the plot.
Did you know
67% to 90% of romances
don't begin with a 'spark'.
So let's try a little experiment...
How it works
Meet someone at our night out.
Agree to three dates.
Sign up
Tell us about yourself and tell us who referred you.
Attend
We fill the room; you bring the vibes.
Commit to the bit
If you connect, you both agree to three dates.
Try three dates
Maybe it's chemistry. Maybe it's a plot twist. Maybe it's just a really good story.
What Third Dates actually is
A fun singles night first. Then agree to three dates if you both feel it.
No huge promises. No dramatic pressure. Just a better experiment in meeting someone properly.
The vibe
Intentional, playful, a little silly and very much in person.
Less endless texting. More actual atmosphere. More presence.
FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Who is this for?
Anyone in their 20s and 30s who feels like dating isn't fun anymore and wants more adventure, discovery and exploration.
How long does signing up take?
Usually about 3 to 5 minutes.
Will my information be private?
Yes! Your information is only used for event registration and matchmaking.
Where are the events hosted?
Events are hosted in East London. Our next event will be at The Devil You Know in Dalston.
Do I have to be certain about someone immediately?
No. That is the whole point. Third Dates is designed around the idea that connection can grow after a first meeting.
Is this speed dating?
Not exactly. It's more relaxed, more social, and built to feel like a genuinely good night rather than a stopwatch with drinks.
What does “three dates” really mean?
It means giving an interesting connection a real chance before writing it off too early. Think of it as openness with structure, not pressure.
What happens after the three dates
It's up to you! This three-dates approach has led to relationships, friends and, sometimes, meaningful personal growth. Ideally, you'll have greater clarity by the end of it.