Singles events • East London
"Dating is Dead ...it's so boring ...feels interviewy ...so not chic"
But it doesn't have to be ↓Did you know
67% to 90% of romances
start from a slow burn.
So maybe if we let things cook and take first dates less seriously, we might uncover what we actually like?
How it works
Meet someone at our night out.
Agree to three dates.
Sign up
Tell us about yourself. Sign up before spots run out!
Meet in person
We fill the room; you bring the vibes.
Try three dates
If you connect, you both agree to three dates (we'll share ideas).
See what happens
Putting less pressure on first dates, just makes dating way more fun!
What Third Dates actually is
A fun singles night first. Then go on three dates if you both feel it.
No more first and second-round interview-style dates. Agreeing to try three dates with no dramatic pressure leaves room for exploration. It's an experiment in meeting someone properly.
The vibe
Lighthearted, a little silly and very much in person.
Less endless texting. Less first-date pressure. Less boring. More fun.
FAQ
Frequently asked questions
Who is this for?
Anyone in their 20s and 30s who feels like dating isn't fun anymore and wants more adventure, discovery and exploration. For now, our focus is on straight events but expanding to more inclusive events is certainly in our future!
How long does signing up take?
Usually about 3 to 5 minutes.
What if I run out of date ideas?
Don't worry, we've got you covered on a list of our fave date spots and ideas in London!
Where are the events hosted?
Events are hosted in East London. Next event coming soon.
Do I have to be certain about someone immediately?
No. That is the whole point. Third Dates is designed around the idea that connection can grow after a first meeting.
Is this speed dating?
Not exactly. It's more relaxed, more social, and built to feel like a genuinely good night rather than a stopwatch with drinks.
How much does it cost?
Secure your spot for £12. If you make it to date three, this will serve as credit towards that date.
What happens after the three dates?
It's up to you! This three-dates approach has led to relationships, friends and, sometimes, meaningful personal growth. Ideally, you'll have greater clarity by the end of it.
Will my information be private?
Yes! Your information is only used for event registration and matchmaking.